I would even go as far as to say that men want the same things women want but are too afraid to admit. Think about that for a moment. From birth, we are taught to be modest even in the United States where women are supposedly equal to men and that if we are sexual, we are also somehow dirty. Strip away the social demands placed on women, and you will find that most of us want and desire the same things in the bedroom that the guys do.
The only difference is that men are often allowed to be more open about what they want, as long as they don't sound weak in the asking. Learning what he wants in bed will give us equal time to explore what we also want in the bedroom. After all, giving leads the way to getting. That might have been fine back in the s, but we are in the 2Ks now.
Men want us to want sex, too. Reach out to your man and let him know when you are in the mood for some action. Instead of thinking we are out on the prowl for sex, they are happy to know that we take responsibility for our own sexual health. Carrying a condom shows that we are mature and stable enough to be in an adult relationship with someone who is also concerned about his own health. According Shape, men view sex as a way to express their love.
When you consistently turn your man down, you are hurting his feelings and making him feel rejected. We are beautiful to them even if we think we are less than perfect. What matters is that you are willing to be open and intimate with just him, so get up on top to give him the full view or make love to him in front of a mirror.
Give him all that he wants and more. They can only guess at what we might want and even then they wonder if they are doing it right. Take the guessing out of the game and tell him exactly what you want in bed. Guys think it is hot when a woman knows what she wants in the bedroom and are all too often willing to give us exactly what we ask for. It just happens sometimes. The best thing we can do is use the down time for some snuggling, back massages, and have him perform some oral on you.
Between work and life's other obligations, praise is probably one of the things that is missing from his life, so give it to him. In the bedroom, men like to know what they are doing right instead of always being told what they are doing wrong. In fact, if you keep pointing out all the things he does wrong, he will begin to feel that nothing he does is right and he will want to give up. Give him encouragement and when he does something that makes you feel good, let him know about it.