In our BDSM chatroom you will find people to chat with about popular and obscure sexual preferences and fetishes. We also wish to provide you with articles and links to kinky sites that will provide tips, warnings and information on the BDSM and Kink lifestyle.
Within these titles are numerous sexual preferences, roles and fetishes which all fall under the umbrella term of Kink which simply refers to all "unusual" sexual behavior. Fetishes are sexual excitement brought about a specific "thing" such as an inanimate object, a scent, or a body type.
Popular fetishes may include, feet, rope, latex, hair, shoes and wax. The degree or severity to which this is practiced can vary from light playful spanks to hard spiked paddles. You can dominate or submit to someone over the phone or computer. These roles are not set in stone and partners may choose to switch from time to time if they find joy or arousal on both sides.
A Sadist may harm, belittle or humiliate a Masochist who ultimately finds pleasure in being in such situations. BDSM topics are always encouraged, however. While the following are not " rules " and by no means mandatory, we hope you will join us incelebrating some of our traditions and expectations.
Respect the other chatters. We do not discriminate between those who participate in BDSM activities and those who do not.
The only exceptions are violations of the site rules. Chatters are respectfully requested to register usernames and have a correct age listed in the profile. The well-known and trusted Dominants control the room and are responsible for the safety of the submissives; submissives should let the Dominants do so. This includes granting entrance and removing any unpleasant element in chat and play.
The submissives should let the Dominants handle the matter without assistance. Moderators are only present to enforce the site rules. Traditionally, a Capitalized name is a Dominant; a lowercase name is a submissive. A name with letters in brackets at the end indicates a collared or protected submissive, i. While we understand English grammar rules, traditionally, a Dominant is referred to with capitalized pronouns and honorifics as a courtesy, i.
Submissive or slave referral to self in third person is acceptable and may be considered a formality. This is a reminder of their submission and also a gesture of respect to the Dominants. The Dominant s granting admission should be thanked by the submissive before greeting others. If another Dominant has a complaint about a collared submissive, it should be given directly to that submissive's Dominant, privately.
Please ask to private message other members of the room. They are focused on each other and distractions are disruptive. Please do not post random porn photos, links, or music to the BDSM room. There are other rooms for that. We prefer our photos to be on theme and coincide with the topic being discussed at the moment.
For ease of understanding, please spell out all of your words in chat. Politeness is required, respect is earned.