Comment Sex is a creative expression of love and lust and a healthy sex life allows for experimentation. So long as no one gets hurt, kinky sex is, generally, good for you. Dirty, Sexy Clothes and Underwear Put on those leather pants, or a harness…choose a latex bra, a lacy lingerie outfit, or put on a pair of hooker boots.
A little bit of a naughty dress code can create wonders in the bedroom! Have Sex in Front of a Mirror Men are visual creatures and having sex in front of a mirror, especially going down on them in front of a mirror they can look in, stimulate them in, well, wonderful ways… This is why men are usually drawn to porn and page three girls, while women read about a certain Mister Grey, because our sexual brains, as it were, get stimulated in different ways.
Women often prefer words, while men usually prefer images. Of course, both men and women like a little bit of both though and there is always the exception to the rule! Send Dirty Photos of Yourself For the same reason men like mirrors, they like images. Women like images too, but they may prefer something a little bit less graphic than what some men do. Other fantasies are meant to be explored, whether to a certain degree, or all the way.
You can even take turns writing a story, where one of you start something in one email, the other replies and build upon that story, etc. Reading these kind of stories out loud can give you both a kick. Like in the middle of a wedding ceremony. Do a Boudoir Shoot Together Whether you hire a professional to take pictures of the two of you together i. This ties into giving compliments in the bedroom. Weird as it may sound, some people forget to say how much they like seeing their partner naked, how much they like it when they get kissed in a certain way, how hot they think it is when their partner does a certain thing, etc.
It builds trust between the two of you as you assure each other of how sexy you find one another. Trust, in turn, opens people up to try more kinky stuff. And simply having your partner relax because they feel sexy is going to make sex that much more enjoyable! Tie Them Up Tying someone up, or using handcuffs of some sort there are really soft ones that use satin, etc.
There are endless ways of tying someone up, be it with a tie, a rope, or a chain. Tell Someone What to Do Dominate someone by taking charge and telling them what to do to you. If you like you can experiment with a bit of role play here, like one of you being the teacher and the other the student.
The Sexy Massage Giving someone a massage with a happy ending can be extremely kinky! Spanking Giving someone a spanking with the back of a hairbrush, using your hand, or a whip, can be a big turn on for many people. Get It On in Public While you might not want to get yourself arrested for having sex in public really a bad idea , hands traveling under skirts and to other…unsuitable…places is another cup of tea entirely and can be a big turn on.
If you want to get it on all the way in public, a sex party might be your best bet. Have Sex in Nature Having sex in public, yet in a secluded place where no one will see you, turns a lot of people on. There are lots of ways of playing games that can spice things up. Some like using costumes, some get seriously into their roles, others just play around a bit with the idea of something.
Blindfold Each Other Letting someone blindfold you and then please you in whatever ways they can think of can be kinky!
Sneak a Peak Another kinky turn on for some people is having sex while others are watching, or watching others having sex. Or you simply all have sex at the same time, but no sharing. Swinging If you want to actually share partners, then swinging is the name of the game. You can organize it with friends who are into the same thing, find partners on websites, or attend a swing party.
Such communities are founded on trust and might be a better option than strangers in a club… Hot and Cold Tease your partner by alternating between putting something hot and cold in your mouth and then kissing them.
If you suck on a mint at the same time it will heighten the experience. Lick it off… Touch Them Up Using different materials can stimulate people in different ways. You can blindfold them first and use different materials as you go along, of just settle for one. In fact, just wearing gloves turn some people on.
Playing Footsie A woman in high heels kicks them off underneath the table in a restaurant and starts to stroke her lovers legs, working her way up, using her feet. This can be kinky alright! For others, combining a uniform with role playing is their kind of kink! Bathing or Showering Together Scrubbing someone down in the shower, or hot tub, can be an extremely sensual experience.
Sex Toys Sex shops offer an endless array of toys and online ones have made it extremely easy to find what you are looking for.
Using a vibrator that stimulates both of you can lead to a memorable and kinky night, as can pretty much any other good toy out there.