Sometimes having hotter sex is as simple as a change of scene — and a few steamy new positions to try in said space. One location that tends to be less utilized by lovemakers? Sure, there's no shortage of shower sex that can be had here. But what about using the bathroom sink or top of the toilet to your advantage? Or getting it done in an empty public restroom when the mood strikes while the two of you are still out?
With a little creativity and some discretion , any bathroom you choose can become the scene of your next steamy shag session. Not to mention, once the two of you are done, the clean up is more than convenient. We asked a few experts and some real women who regularly get it on in the bathroom for their best tips, advice and sex positions for using any bathroom to it's full fornication potential.
Read on for the best bathroom sex positions. Sex In Public Restrooms It has the potential to get a little gross depending on the venue, but sex in a public bathroom gets the job done — especially if you're not ready to call it a night just yet. Of course, you'll want to do whatever you can to be discreet while you're doing it — and of course, not get caught.
But for you less risky risk takers, know that sex in a public bar or club restroom will likely just get you kicked out of the place rather than arrested. The chances of the staff detaining you and drawing cops to their venue in order to press charges are pretty much slim to none, since the police showing up to a bar can kill the vibe faster than a guy whipping out his guitar at a house party.
But you may want to choose a place that you're not particularly attached to when you're looking to pull this one off, just in case you do end up getting banned for life. Bonus points if you're doing it in one of those unisex bathrooms that have high walls and doors rather than stalls.
We got it down to a science: I'd go in first, pick the stall as far back as I could go and he'd watch me go in.
The only time we ever came close to getting caught was when my ex had one too many one night, and couldn't remember which stall I was in. He was trying to get into one that was occupied by someone else who wouldn't let him in, and the security guard saw he was drunk and trying to do so and guided him to another empty stall.
Public Restroom Positions There are obvious cons that come with doing it in a public setting vs. To help avoid these pitfalls, White recommends choosing a sturdy sex position. Here are a few options to consider. Have her wrap her legs around you for added stability and deeper penetration. White says to make sure the faucet won't become a problem first. Megan Stubbs recommends trying this one — if you're able to secure a semi-private bathroom that isn't a stall set-up.
Put some paper towel on the ground to kneel on and enjoy. Just don't let your partner slip into the sink! If we're doing it in a stall-type of setup where we don't want our legs to be the giveaway, I'll shut the toilet seat cover and get on my knees on top of it in order to make it look less conspicuous.
Sex In Your Own Bathroom Sure, you lose the thrill of potentially getting caught when you're just doing the dirty in your own bathroom at home. But at-home bathroom sex means that time is on your side, and opens you up to be able to experiment with new positions, and even have time for some foreplay. Also, you're dealing with a much cleaner, more pleasant setup. Here are a few sex positions to try in the comfort of your own bathroom — not counting shower sex, which is a whole different animal.
If you're curious, check out AskMen's guide to shower sex as well. Steam Room Spread Eagle Carlee Ranger It's the same spread eagle position you love doing when you're lying down, taken upright on your bathroom's elevated surfaces. Jess O'Reilly, Astroglide's resident sexologist. The standing partner thrusts while the seated partner grinds, rocks and uses their legs to guide the rhythm. And even if you've been lazy about decorating your place, it's more than likely that your bathroom has at least one mirror you'll be able to leverage here.
O'Reilly, "using the sink or counter to hold herself up with her hands. Slide in from behind, and you both get to enjoy the view. This would probably be tough if we didn't have the vanity or the space, but I'd recommend recreating it if you have a sink countertop that's long enough to use in order to pull it off.
This got really messy, but there was one time I was sitting on top of the toilet, and my boyfriend was seated on the top of the closed toilet seat eating me out.
On a whim he grabbed the shower head, turned it on, and started gently massaging my clit with it. We had to use every towel we owned to soak things up after it was over — but my god, it was so worth it.