Tweet Pin Y'all, we're busy. Every single one of us. And sadly, sometimes that means our sex lives fall by the wayside. There's no way we're going to be able to pull off any of the crazy antics and sex positions that a lot of articles suggest. That's why we're bringing it back to the basics. If you're on the hunt for your lost orgasm, some simple sex moves are all you and your partner need to get back in the game. And you don't even have to be a contortionist to pull these puppies off.
Get stoked Sexy moments can strike when you least expect them. So seize the chance to spice up a night on the couch. Sex therapist Gloria Brame, Ph. Keep your panties on Back in high school, you probably had rules for how far you'd go: Well, the teenage you was on to something. Make circles Let's be honest: Most people are just grateful to be getting a oral sex.
But that's no excuse to rest on your laurels. Rather than simply moving up and down, use your tongue to slowly wind around his member or her clitoris.
When you're at the top, slide your whole mouth down and then up, with a sucking motion," suggests sex therapist Carole Altman, Ph. Give barely-there kisses Rather than simply making a beeline for your partner's below-the-belt region, create a slow burn with featherlight kisses.
Start by kissing eyelashes, then the corner of the mouth, the jaw, and the collarbone. Next, kiss your partner's nipples, chest, down along the treasure trail and over to one hip bone, then the other.
Bend it better For greater stimulation in missionary position, try this: Get a little rough Give a jolt during sex by gently nipping your partner's shoulders or earlobe.
But what lazybones might not realize is that sitting up can enhance the pleasure even more. We're Here to Help 8. Guess what's next A little unpredictability during sex can make the experience even more intense for you. Two short strokes followed by a long one, three deep ones in a row followed by two quick teases Show off Although your inner bad girl may get off on the idea of being caught in the act, the real you may not feel right about sneaking off to a bar bathroom.
But you can feed any secret exhibitionist appetites by doing the deed in front of a window with the lights out. You'll get a rush from just the possibility of being watched. Blow hot air No matter what position you're in, you can enhance the experience by gently exhaling on each other's skin. Originally published January