GypeBrene At a loss as to how to make your husband happy in bed? We've got a list of sex tips for wives that's sure to bring back the spice in bed! If only there are actual sex tips for wives you can follow, right? Even if you've had very revealing conversations about sex with your partner, there are some things he may not have said to you, but secretly hoped you knew. Sex tips for wives: So, go ahead and click away!
They want you to be open to trying new things Many men tell sex therapists that they would love it if their wives were more open to experimenting when it comes to sex. Even if you think his suggestions sound totally ridiculous, at least be open to talking about it.
You never know, once you get talking, he might be able to convince you to give his suggestions a go. They love to fantasize We know how that feels… we fantasize too, right? Although it's more likely about things like those fabulous new shoes or a bag we have our eye on. Well, men fantasize about things that are totally unrelated to bags and shoes.
But you already know that, right? Better yet, while you are hearing him out, why not air out some of your deepest, darkest fantasies too? According to sex therapists, men like it when their women talk dirty to them. What these experts say is that getting aroused looking at porn and being addicted to porn are completely different things. However, you would know your man has a problem if he relies only on porn to get turned on. Guys say that they love it when their women tell them what they like in bed.
Things like when to speed up, when to slow down and when to stop. Of course, the same goes for something he does that you love! Go ahead and let him know about it! They want to have more sex with you After spending the whole day juggling your work, the kids and errands, the last thing you want to have is sex, right? You'll probably prefer a relaxing foot rub instead!
He regards sex as a pleasurable 'stress-buster', probably similar to how we think about that foot rub.
So try to make an effort for your man and have more time to make love to each other! They want you to praise their efforts Just like how we ladies love the occasional compliment — such as, "Honey, you look stunning," or, "That color really suits you" — guys love to hear praises as well.
Of course, we mean praises for their mighty efforts in bed! So, boost his ego and be forthcoming with the compliments. He will no doubt make further efforts to double your pleasure in bed. Ask him for directions, like where he wants to be touched. This will surely make your job a bit easier! Remember, we mentioned how guys think of sex as a relaxing stress-buster? Sometimes all they want to do is ravish their wives — and it has nothing to do with dominating them.
Men say such a reaction makes them feel ashamed and emasculated. When this happens, shift gears and try something else! Article originally published on theAsianparent.