How old are you? Netherlands Highest education received: In a serious relationship open Religious affiliation: Atheist How religious are you?
Bisexual How many sexual partners have you had in your life including oral sex? Dating casually How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits How long did you know the person before this hookup?
What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was casually sexually seeing a handsome colleague of mine I had a crush on and we went out together. I lost him in the club we were at and later found him making out with another girl. You should have seen his face! But I decided to make the best of the situation and started talking to her, making my advances clear to her, as she was gorgeous!
Exactly the kind of surfer girl I liked, natural and playful. So I asked her if she wanted to come home with us and we had a great night. I really started loving her at one point as a friend and a lover, but because she never really identified as a bisexual I think it never became serious. What led to it? What sexual behaviors took place e. How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The girl and I ended up having a great time I think it was her first time with a woman.
We had sex with the guy and with each other. How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one Did your partner have an orgasm? How did you feel about it the next day? How do you feel about them now?
I felt good about it, it was young and fun. As a bisexual, I like experiencing both sexes at the same time. I remember being impressed by surfer girl and wanting to know more about her. What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner s , Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have How intoxicated were you?
Alcohol How intoxicated was your partner? Alcohol How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very Did you consent to this hookup at the time?
I gave enthusiastic consent How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very Did your partner s consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Relatively positive Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup?
Not at all Do you regret this hookup? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I like casual sex. I wish it was more accepted towards women. What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? You have a hookup story to share?