Um, lets see… The only word I would put in is that it seems like advertising yourself as a single mother is much more demanding as a statement than merely asserting your name and from there on talking or sharing accordingly. When men read this, a lot of us are very insecure about the title. It would be so different to come to the title that says… hi, Im rachel. Explaining to us parts of your life and along the way sharing with us that you have a son and maybe nothing at all about your relationship status.
Why even tell us that you are single? You are beautiful, so… this is one of the first things people are conditioned to expect. She is not saying husband!? People who really care in that they might be looking for you as an opportunity, will analyze you enough to figure out why you are here, why you have so much information about yourself up… if you are married.
Put more videos of yourself up, if you want to attract men. More videos and more pictures. Live videos like this one… not just you, but also with friends and being active! Showing people that you are happy says a lot!
And part of our conditioned mind says that happy people are this with people. I think this may turn more men off then it attracts. Obviously, we are going to find out if you have children, and I am not at all saying… maybe hide him for a while. It sounds as if bob is a fanatic or overly proud … Unless it is a commerical, but… its not. I can relate to the idea that you are here, using this as an outlet, as I understood in your video post. I can relate to that, and I am happy you said it.
It explained…why you were apparently so focused on being single. And despite its funciton in your life, regardless of how you act aside the site… this is just what I wanted to say—as my one word becomes its usual page—that it seems like you are very focused on being single.
And maybe this contributes to staying single? For example, I do not see any guy statements on this page, but instead all single-mom comments. In this, its like you are relating not to men as I would think is at some point your natural intent but instead to people who are in the same life as you.
Why not be more casual about it? I know being single is really… just…not what we want at times—despite the upsides of it, as well—but by focusing so much on it, by speaking and blogging and picturing single single single… blink blink blink… single single single…well, not that there is an ultimate right way to date for all people everywhere, but I think that one of the best ways to really get someone you like is being around that person habitually. Anyways, if you do not agree..
Also, I did not see any hate comments up, but instead some compliments, and of course just like women, men love that!
When I started this blog I wrote only about single motherhood. I really am not looking for men. Hence the lag between videos.