His name is Dave Perrotta. Dave knows his stuff when it comes to getting what you want in career, women, and life. And today, Dave is doing a guest blog post for us. Women who have an edge — who know what they want, and go for it. And of course, are sexy to boot. More often than not, these types of women have been older than me. In some cases, ten or more years older.
When I was younger , I thought these types of women were out of my league. A lot of guys seem to feel the same way. Age really is just a number. She enjoyed the sex we had, she just wanted me to last longer, breathe deeper, and be more in the moment. Older women will give you the kind of constructive criticism you need to improve in the bedroom — things that younger women are too afraid to say, or not experienced enough to notice. This will give you a significantly better sex life.
They also have years more experience, and understand how to please men — and also how to please themselves. This all combines for a much better sexual experience for both of you.
Older women have been through most of that already. Their advice can give you huge epiphanies and help you get to the next level in your life… Or at that very least, add some depth to your personality and help you mature. So, are you convinced yet? So what does this mean? Why is this important? With more interactions, comes more learning opportunities. Go to Venues with Older Women Now you actually have to go out and meet older women.
The key is to go to venues where they like to hang out. Do some research of the nightlife in your area. Start off by checking out some of the best lounges in your city.
Try to find your best local location and start checking it out. Also check out Meetup. These are also great places to meet older women.
Now you need to go up and talk to them. The key here is confidence. Instead, see it as a casual conversation between a man and a woman. Make strong eye contact, speak from your chest, and approach with the same confidence as you would with a woman your own age.
Lead Unapologetically Leading is even more important with older women. Well, when most younger men talk with older women, they make the mistake of letting the women call the shots.
Even a lot of older guys make this same mistake. What does this mean? In the bar, take her hand and lead her around. Figure out the logistics and confidently direct the interaction back to your place or hers. Pretty busy, but free on Thursday night. You should hang out with cool and attractive women who are your age.
Instead of arguing, try to trigger her emotions. I thought you were sweet, gorgeous, and cool, and I was looking forward to seeing you again. This will never work. Maybe I can make an exception. Especially if she makes more money than you, is further ahead in her career, and is more mature.
Remember that none of this is a big deal. And all that means is that you should be working to become the best version of yourself.
Because when you boil it down, if the age difference is large, the two of you will be at much different stages of life. Good sex will keep older women coming back to you — mostly because they know how rare good sex can actually be. Get Your Lifestyle in Check Remember, in your twenties, your potential and trajectory is more important than your actual current status. Women can go wild with your potential and trajectory.
There are so many different things you can do and become. Hell, you could be a doctor, an entrepreneur, or a celebrity. But if you already are those things, some of the excitement is gone. Basically, you want to do things to get your lifestyle in check and boosting your potential.
Get in Shape A lot of older guys let themselves go physically. They stop working out and get fat and out of shape. By working out and lifting weights , you can stand out to older women, and be more physically attractive. This is another thing that leads to better sex and keeps them around. You know have a gameplan for attracting and dating older women.