We don't have a healthy sex life, as I am not interested in having sex with him, thus we have sex on the very odd occasion. Is there a drug or herb that could entice my Libido other than Horny Goats Weed, as I have finished the whole bottle and it didn't work for me. Not what you were looking for? Sexologist Prostate cancer is the leading cause of cancer in older men.
It has a relatively high incidence in the United States. Increased risk factors include men with a family history or African American heritage.
Many risk factors have been tested. Even smoking is not directly linked to prostate cancer as it is with lung and bladder cancer. Increased or decreased frequency of ejaculation may affect prostate cancer rates, but this has not been determined.
Currently, the American Urological Association has not issued guidlines on ejaculation to prevent onset of prostate cancer. Your second part of the question: Why don't you feel like sex, because you are angry with him, is it painful, are you orgasmic, or does sex just seem like to much work. Woodt Alan said sex is like oxygen, only when we are not getting it, do we miss it. Beware before it is to late, when you realise that you are missing it too. Good luck Dr Elna McIntosh The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition.
You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical exmanication, diagnosis and formal advice.
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Reply to Anonymous Posted by: Since then, we have not had any sex. When asked, he just says there is no desire. I enjoy sex very much but would never think of being unfaithful so I just masturebate.
I have tried hugs and cozying up to him but he just pushes me away. All follow up exams say he's health and no sign of cancer. Has he just lost interest in me or is there something wrong with him? Reply to Anonymous 1 comment hide Posted by: I am a man by all means, trucker, mechanic, roofer, plumber, carpenter, etc. But I also cook, clean, do laundry, etc also.
I am also the "lover" as you seem to be with the cuddling and the need for closeness Like you, masturbation only handles the physical while emotionally we are dying inside. So you nad I have the same question: WTF does you not being in the mood have to do with affection and love? And so we, like so many others, are caught in a trap of sexless marriages while the spouses deprive us of something important to a marriage And we go nuts because we want the intimacy but the boundaries of marriage gotta have morals forces us to live without If my wife wanted the big O and I was not interested, I'd still do what I need to do Its about your spouse, not you.
I feel for you I can't speak for you, but did you notice how it seems to be all about you wanting sex to them instead of the truth I want to be intimate with YOU dummy! They should just get started and they will get into it once they begin. Holy basil and ashwaganda may also help in combination with libido herbs. Women not wanting sex seems to be a huge problem.
Sex is part of marriage. If your wife is no longer interested, leave them and find a wife who will enjoy making love to you. If not, you basically have a roommate. Treat them like roommates. Don't try to change your wives.
Increasing your knowledge and self worth is the only way to get through this. It is humiliating for men to beg for sex. Women use this as a tool to control or a passive aggressive way to destroy a marriage. Work less hour, don't cheat out of anger, respectfully speak your mind and do more for yourselves not your wives.
Find a sport, hobby etc. Reply to Anonymous 2 comments hide Posted by: I cook, clean, work, mechanic, carpenter, plumber And I still can't get any without begging. What is true here is that we need to stop this crap I will NOT go looking for it mid 40s but with a strong sex drive and only being intimate twice in the last year???
Well, if it presents itself I will NOT say no. And this is NOT a refection on me If you do, do NOT tell them Maybe we should retain the Cry of the 60's youths. America forget making bombs for the masses around the World. Older male citizens with theirs prostate problems need 'Love' Reply to p martin Posted by: Isn't it always 2 people I see what you did there