Gal plz tell me what to do am scared to have sex with my boyfriend Aimee You had sex with a teacher. So the important thing is to make sure you keep it quiet and no one finds out.
If you want to do it, understand the consequences and take precautions. It may not be something that you would do, but there are some girls who would choose to do it. Some girls have a huge crush on their teachers and the sexual fulfillment is just awesome for them. Like, he didnt even ask if i was a virgin n stuf.
He wus so cool. Aimee My boyfriend kisses my neck during sex. Its really uncomfortable but when i tell him, he laughs and does it harder.
What should i do? S dont tell me to dump him because he is the sweetest and kindest boyfriend ever. However I plan to go to where he lives for the holidays and we plan on having sex. He is about to be My mom knows about us and is perfectly okay with it. I mean look at Samantha, they ended up getting married.
I am in love with my boyfriend and we plan on getting married after I turn We understand what having sex may bring.
We are ready to have a baby if I were to get pregnant. I love him and I know he loves me. So we have something that some people never have. We were just lucky enough to find it at a young age. So, please stop judging us. I was so glad to read your comment. I hate everyone judging a girl becoz she has an older bf. I am 15 too and my bf is I go to his place a lot becoz there is no where else to go. He is so so sweet. I have known him for 2 years and we been havin a lot of sex for a long time.
We are so so so in love and I hate when we have to keep things quiet becoz evryone looks and judges such relationships. It feels so right. It doesnt feel bad or dirty. I want the sex as much as he does and I know he likes me becoz I am younger. I dont think that is wrong in any way. Yes I gave him my virginity becoz it felt good and right. Thanks for your post and I hope many more girls our age can come on this site and make such comments.
We are just ready before they were. Starflexs Am a student or oyemekul grammer skul akure the same happens to me what should i do nw my gf is till a virgin am chucks add me on 2go starflexs for more inform Lucia OMG I agree. I lost my virginity this weekend. I was staying with my grandma and I told her I was going to see my friends.
I went to the mall and my bf picked me up from the mall. I wus so scared goin to his place all alone. It was an awesome feeling.
He made me feel the best. It was so good. It didnt hurt at all and I dont know why every1 makes a fuss abt bleedin and stuff. I dont think I bled much. I was still on my period so he said it was okay to cum inside of me. I wanted him to stay inside of me forever. I wanted him to keep doin it. It just felt so good. Yeah I think we make too much of a big deal. My frends say it is such an awesome feeling and doing it is so kewl.
My bf is older and workin overseas and hes been wanting 2 do it for a while now. I think im ready to go all the way. Thanks natalia There are a few things here that need to be emphasized 1 you are mistaking fear for apprehension which is quite normal.
There is always an element of anxiety when doing it for the first time or with any new partner 2 Plz dont make it sound like an ordeal, because it isnt. It is perfectly okay. Just go with the flow, dont resist and try and relax. I lost mine at 12 and I knew nothing, not even the guy I lost it to and luckily he was a lot older so he handled it extremely well.
Just make sure you are really well lubricated and extremely horny. Engage in plenty of foreplay and oral and that way you will be really ready for him to penetrate you. Try it you might like things. Oral is a definite YES.
Anal you might want to leave that for later. But vaginal penetration when you are having an orgasm is one of the best feelings ever. You wont want to stop. Dont worry about deep penetration. Let him go in deep if he wants to. It is mind blowing. Just relax, open your legs and let him slide in all the way. So, just relax and enjoy your first experience. Dont destroy this beautiful experience by letting anxiety come in the way.
Also find somewhere private and make sure you have lots of time so you can explore and do things in privacy without the worry of needing to speed things up. I think it is so important to relax. There is too much bad advice that it hurts.
I feel so embarrassed when gurls are so stupid and then they talk about bleeding. OMG we bleed so much when we have our periods. The bleeding when you have sex for the first time is so trivial: O newlyInitiated Thanks Natalia.
Took your advice and all went beautifully. Just like you said relax, relax, relax, plenty of foreplay and he used lube because it was my first time. Had the best time. I agree an older bf is most certainly very very helpful. Just got to keep it quiet. Most girls will say it hurt and stuff and generate paranoia. Other girls will believe those lies.
When a girl boasts, most likely she has never done it and what she describes about her experience is just false and in keeping with those tall tales of the inexperienced. When I first had sex it never hurt. Ofcourse my bf was the most caring guy and he took trouble of stretching me and making me orgasm several times with oral sex before he penetrated me.
When he actually penetrated me it was such an awesome feeling and the sexual sensations were mind blowing. Having someone a few years older does help. They seem to be a lot more caring and know how to make a girl feel good.
They take the trouble of making sure we are made to feel the pleasures of sex and it then becomes a very beautiful and memorable experience. Unfortunately because I was so young I had to break it off with him because we almost got caught. So he felt it was best if we broke up. I so miss him and hate the fact that we are all the time told that older guys take advantage and are pervs and are committing a crime if they have a sexual relationship with a younger girl.
I cannot believe how this could be a crime when all we did was fall in love with each other. Why it had to stop beats me. I am 14 and I recenntly broke up with my bf who is my age too.