Google Pinterest Reddit What do you think when you think of massage? Slow music, gentle hands, comfort and relaxation? We could go really deep into this and read about 80 massage therapy styles along with a wide variety of pressures, movements and techniques.
But we are not going to. You are not a massage professional, and what really matters here is perfecting a gesture that it can be used as a powerful foreplay. Even if you only give her a 10 minute rubdown, you will be rewarded with a relaxed and happy woman in your arms or in your bed. How to give a sensual massage: The essential ingredients Before you can learn how to give a sensual massage, you have to learn the ingredients. Learning, and putting them together in the right way, will have a big effect on her pleasure and getting the outcome you want.
The massage is meant to be sensual! You need her to feel as comfortable as possible. First, dim the lights and light a few candles. This provides a nice romantic ambiance. Next, prepare your place for a massage.
If you are giving her a simple hand or scalp massage, a chair will do just fine. If a romantic massage is an appetizer before the main course, then choose something sexy like soul music or if its for relaxation then go for soft and slow blues, or even nature sounds such as running water or the sounds of the rain forest.
Its as important as a mechanics wrench. The list of appropriate oils you can use is long. Experiment with a few and find what you like. You can find all these and more at the health food store. Also, spa shops and skin care stores have a big variety of blended massage oils containing two or more oils.
These can be very appealing. Or just purchase some online from the link here. Almond oil is one of the most popular and my personal favorite as a woman. It is slightly oily, but allows your hands to slide smoothly. Sensual Massage Techniques Now that you have all the ingredients to a great sensual massage its time to learn the various techniques.
The part of the body you are going to play with and the length of the play depend on your relationship with the woman. If it is a date number ten — give her a present of a full body massage. Nothing says romance like the gift of relaxation. Let the foreplay begin! If you have ever gotten a nice back massage and felt someone rubbing out your knots with their thumbs then you have had the shiatsu style treatment.
Just lay your hands or fingers on a certain spot while applying some pressure and rotate slowly. If you are really experienced, you can use your elbow on places that really could use the pressure. This is also great on the buttocks, where you can place one hand on top of the other and rotate slowly.
Keep your fingers together, thumbs parallel and palms in full contact with the body part you are massaging. The friction technique rarely requires the use of oils, which is why you build up so much friction between your hand and her body. It is a focused stroke, which is used in some really small area with a certain amount of stability and pressure. Honestly, its better leave this move for professionals.
But if you do it — be gentle. If you are doing it very gently you can do it anywhere. She can feel uncomfortable and fat. Kneading is similar to the way a baker kneads bread.
Have you ever made bread in before? Its really very simple. The way you do the kneading massage is by grasping and lifting the tissue not too high!
First the palms press down on muscle tissue, then you push your fingers together and then then you move upward in a lifting motion. All of these massage moves go great together. Apply Shiatsu to her shoulders, then use a little bit of oil and stroke the back, knead the buttocks, stroke the thighs and calves and finish off with a gentle friction on the soles of her feet.
Your ready to give the perfect sensual massage and have her graciously returning the favor. Wife Not Interested in Sex? If she is uncomfortable without a massage table she can turn her head to one side and change its position from time to time. Also, if its easier for you, you can give a head massage if she is in any comfortable seated position. Start by rubbing her temples and forehead. Then, run fingers through her hair and apply gentle downward pressure. Check below for a perfect tutorial video: And for good reason.
This is one of the most relaxing massages to receive and can quickly turn into a sensual evening. For this, the woman has to be face down and her back must be bare. Get a moderate amount of oil, warm it in your hands and apply to her upper body. Start with long strokes on her back, up and down.
Then start to do some Shiatsu and kneading to the shoulders, while every once in a while progressing to gently stroke the neck. The bonus of this sensual rubdown is that eventually you will make your way down to the buttocks, which we will cover in number 3. This is a very sensual massage that is perfect for a romantic foreplay.
Just make sure she is game before you start. Place your palms on her erotic mounds and massage in circular movements. Increase the pressure gradually as you cover every area. Next, place your hands on her right buttock and use the kneading technique.
Remember, create a roll of skin using your thumbs and push it up. Repeat on the left side. She may just enjoy this as much as you. Make sure not to put too much pressure on the knee pits while you use your thumbs to gently massage the area around the kneecap. For a leg massage, it is best to have her lie on her back. They are literally a sensual map of all the body, reflecting different organs and even personality. Have her lie down on her back. Do not press too much in any small areas because you can make her have diarrhea for a week trust me, its possible.
Start from the heel and go up. Be gentle, but not too soft — press a little and work with your thumbs. Hands, like feet, are the map of the body. Start close to the wrist and go up.
Massage every area of her hand with your thumbs and finish off by gently playing with her fingertips. If you are massaging other parts of her body, chest should be the last. If you start with it you will make her very anxious and ready for love games and then what? The trick with chest-breast massage is to slowly build up the desire and finish off with the nipples. It is very important to read her body language — look at her face and listen to her.
Start softly and gently and slowly build more pressure. Remember to caress every area of the breast as they have essential erogenous zones all over them. Be more aggressive if she sounds encouraging, rub the breasts, bring them together, squeeze gently and finish off with the nipples. The key is to be able progress this into a full body, head-to-toe rubdown, including all the body parts.
Not only is this highly satisfying for her, but it is the greatest visual for a man. Below, I found an incredible 4 part sensual massage series that will show you exactly how to give a sensual massage that will leave her breathless. I will break it down from video to video as we go. You can always add more oil, but its hard to get too much off. What I love about the start of this massage is that she first tends to her arms and legs.
They are often overlooked. I love how she straddles her partner as she starts the back massage. Notice how she Kneads and does Shiatsu to the shoulders. Her shoulders will be the most tense, so many find it good to focus a lot of attention on this area. In this video she used the stroking technique perfectly, up and down the back.
When she tends to the lower back she used some friction going outward, stretching those tight lower back muscles.