Start with something lighthearted and playful. If she hesitates or acts indifferent, continue talking for a couple of minutes and then try again. Think of it as verbal foreplay. Use your seductive voice Speaking in a lower and slower paced tone will help relax her into the mood.
You want your voice to be as soft and soothing as possible but still audible. Try to minimize any extreme variances in loudness or speed. Or that kind of husky, deliberate voice you get when you just wake up. Ask her leading questions Now you want to use that seductive voice to move things toward a more sexual dynamic. You must transition naturally while subtly implying where things are headed. Simple, logistical questions are the best. The two that have always worked for me are: Women are extremely intuitive.
Immediately, one of two things always happen: She knows this is getting into sexy territory. Now guide her throughout the incredible experience. Take charge and instruct her Start telling her how to use her hands. Then over the front of her panties. Then to slide her underwear down. Then to tease around and in between her lips. Then to rub her fingers gently over her clit and so on.
Tell her how much you want her You want to reinforce how sexy she is and how you love every second of it. Encourage her to continue indulging in her pleasure. I always let a girl know things like: Have her admit how she wants sex with you! Say please fuck me [your name]. It makes the idea of having sex together REAL. Getting her to admit her desires over the phone has transferred to in-person romance every single time. No shame, no ambiguity, just a sexy experience shared between you both.
I looked in her eyes and kissed her. Never once has a woman hesitated to kiss me back because we were already past that point. Ideally, you want to match her intensity and climax with her. A lot of times women even fall asleep on the phone after a big orgasm.
You can even playfully reinforce how much you enjoyed last night with her. Continue to kiss throughout the date, hook up, and move things towards having sex together for the first time. Sign up below to get immediate access to the First Date Field Manual. How do I pull back on the flirt without making a jarring changeover and looking more awkward than me just continuing to flirt?
Apologizing or explaining yourself unnecessarily comes off awkward and can kill the mood. Just continue either… A. Relating to or asking a deeper question on what you were just talking about.
Let me ask you, how possible is it to take this and apply it to a friend and not so much of a causal acquaintance? If i was up there i would help you warm up XD. Show i try phone sex with her? Reply Meredith on February 24, It works lol, I had a guy do this to me. Nothing relationship wise beyond a hook up panned out but when ever he does call it is like pavlovs dog, I get wet right away.
I hesitated at first but then said. We ended up ignoring each other for a couple of days thinking it was awkward. I said yeah why.. Best sex I have ever had. Had an affair with her for 8 months and dit was the best time of my life.