It's no secret that women have some very specific pleasure points on their body, and hopefully, your guy is no stranger to the clitoris and G-spot. Yet you might be surprised to know that the male body also has particular erogenous zones, or trigger spots, that—when stimulated—will make his orgasms more powerful and your sex life better than ever.
The frenulum is the spot where the glans meets the shaft on the underside of the penis just below the head, and the concentration of nerve endings here is sometimes compared to the female equivalent of the clitoris. Make him go wild: Shutterstock Soles of His Feet How to find it: Start your foreplay by giving him a foot massage: Have a warm towel ready and then place his feet on a pillow on your lap.
Use the warm towel to wipe his feet and get them warm, and then focus on this point by taking your thumb and gently rubbing it around this spot as a transition to a more erotic kind of rubdown. The P Spot How to find it: Your best bet is to talk to your guy outside of the bedroom before you try to finger his anus so he doesn't get any unwanted surprises. Try bringing it up during a romantic dinner by saying you love making love with him, and want to experiment even more.
You might say that you heard stimulating his prostate can trigger a really intense orgasm, and see if he would be down to try it later on. If your guy isn't comfortable with you using your fingers to gently penetrate the area, there are other ways to stimulate his prostate.
One way to do this is to give some loving to his perineum, or the smooth strip of skin between his testicles and anus.
The prostate is internally located between the base of his penis and his anus so touching him on the outside of that area can externally stimulate the gland. Shutterstock Thumb Drive him wild: Many guys are heavily conditioned to focus solely on the genitals. The thumb is actually a sexy spot for a lot of guys. Gluteal Fold How to find it: The crease where the top of his thigh meets his butt is a surefire passion point.
Ease into it slowly. Or, when he is lying on his stomach, try kissing a trail down his back, over his buttocks, and then gently nibbling along this fold and flicking it with your tongue before moving on to his inner thighs.
Sacrum How to find it: The sacrum is the triangular bone located at the base of his spine in between his hips think: There are nerves in the sacrum that are linked to the genitals, so stimulating these nerves can send sensations to his manly parts. In fact, some studies show that electrical stimulation of these nerves can trigger orgasm. Have your man lie on his stomach and give him a massage by doing light, karate-chop type movements along his sacrum.
Shutterstock Nipples Drive him wild: Nipples can be twisted and pulled to great effect, too. It will keep blood flow in the area, increasing sensitivity and keeping them at attention. Or try sucking on an ice cube and then sucking on his nipples. Scrotal Raphe How to find it: It's easy to give his penis all the loving, but don't leave his balls out in the cold.
The scrotal sack is the loose skin that surrounds the testicles and that's what feels good to stimulate. He'll lose himself in the new feelings, and novelty can make for more powerful orgasms.