He is not her biological father and was married to her mother for ten years. They have been divorced for a few years but he has a regular relationship with his step daughter. He still cuddles her, treats her like a little girl and baby talks with her. He massages her and he admits he spoils her rotten.
They act like a doting couple and he admits it. In our relationship, he baby talks with me and tries to act like my father. At first it was funny and cute, now its getting more and more and it is creepy.
He keeps a picture of her on his dresser that is very provacative, she is on laying on her back looking up at the camera and has tight pants on and high heels. He has other pictures of the two of them cuddling on the other bedside tables.
The woman he dated after his divorce and before me were all single mothers with teen age daughters. He has a good relationship now with his biological kids and i do not get a creepy feeling with their relationship at all. The last time the step daughter was here for a week, I spent one night at their house.
Boyfriend left early in the morning and I was getting ready to leave as well after him. She was very tight lipped and rude. She said she didn't get to see her step dad often and wanted to spend time with him. He waits on her hand and foot. He withholds from his other kids but gives her everything without question. She flirts with him and he turns the heat way up for her in the house because she "likes it hot hot hot".
They like to get drunk and watch movies together and be alone together. He comments on how I am just like her for things like going to sleep early and that we both wear sports bras.
Hardest thing was when he talked about a wedding ring he wanted to get me and said he found the perfect one to get me He has a tattoo of it on his arm too for her. He said he didn't have any physical contact with his step daughters mother his ex wife for the last seven years and that he got close with his step daughter more than his wife. God, I am sick of my thoughts that are growing and like a constant feed. He will say things to me like can i get you your blankie?
Do you want to go sleepy sleep now? In the morning he pouts like a little boy that doesn't want to go to school and throws little pouting tantrums. I've tried talking to him about it, he blows it off and says that i am jealous. So I must be sick myself for sticking around, its just that we do have a great relationship when she is not involved. Am I a glutton for this sick feeling?
Its not fun knowing him and her have that bond that is so questionable and i can't let it go.