Why not invite men and women to a sex toy party? It has the potential to be a lot more interesting than just having a few women sit around talking about their favorite flavor of edible lubricant. So, if you are thinking of hosting a sex toy party, here are some tips on how to make it more fun by making it co-ed. But also invite some single people of both sexes — you never know, maybe the party will turn into something more once everyone has a few drinks and gets comfortable with each other.
If you know any hot single people, make sure you invite them to see if they hook up with each other. Anonymity makes people act less inhibited so try to invite friends from different circles. Find A Good Host At sex toy parties, there is generally a host of the evening which is the person who is selling the products.
They tell you about each product, encourage you to take a closer look at most products, and then take your order at the end of the evening.
Unfortunately, a lot of these hosts are dull. They take the whole business of selling sex toy and other accessories a little too seriously, so rather than having fun with it, they end up preaching the virtues of their products a little too much.
Try to get someone with a colorful past — maybe an ex-stripper or a drag queen. These kinds of hosts will make the evening a lot more fun!
Depending on how raunchy you want the party to be, you might even ask the host if guests can demonstrate the use of the sex toys. You may have willing guests who want to show the rest of the crowd exactly how to use anal beads or clitoral creams.
If this is the case, then your sex toy party just went X-rated. Make sure you warn your guests about this before they arrive! If you are holding the party at your place, make sure you have lots of liquor for your guests and arrange for cabs to take them home afterward.
In fact, you can make the party even more fun by creating unique drinks that all relate to the theme of the party. The guests will love that and the alcohol will only help them get rowdier. The atmosphere of the party is also very important. To make it more party-like and less business-like, treat it as though it was just another party you are throwing. Maybe invite people to come over earlier than the party host so that they can enjoy the food and drinks and get relaxed.
People have a hard time sitting still and listening for 2 hours straight so make sure the host knows this. Another idea, not suitable for all parties, is to have music playing in the background and muted porn movies showing on the television. Of course, this really depends on your guest list, but it can really make the party a lot more fun.
It will get people in the mood and may even encourage some of them to hook up with each other. Plus, it might give the guests some ideas as to what to do with the sex toys they buy at the end of the night.
Clothing Optional When your guests arrive, you can tell them that the party is going to be clothing optional. Just imagine all the men at the party comparing themselves to the dildos being passed around! Costumes Another great twist on sex toy parties is to make them costume parties. Get everyone to dress in a sex-related costume.
They can come as a dominatrix or a cowboy with buttless chaps or as a porn star. The possibilities are really endless and it will set the mood of the party right away. Plus, if some people are slightly embarrassed by the whole situation, they might feel more comfortable in a costume rather than coming to the party as themselves. Whatever twists you end up throwing on your party, the result will be the same — everyone will drink, laugh and be merry — and go home with a new toy in their pocket!