Well hey, there you have it, I guess I'm small. I may as well not attempt to have a monogamous relationship because I can have absolutely no confidence that my parter yeah right, as I'll ever have one won't find someone who is my equal in every respect except with a bigger dick.
Right now I wouldn't care if someone put a bullet in me. Trust me, you don't want to have such a low self esteem that everything about you inlcuding your life as this loser believes is centered around your penis.
You run a higher risk of having a wife who may want to get things elseware. Although if you find the right person that may not happen.
I am sure alot of men would like to be with someone exclusivly and marry someday. Having a below five inch dick doesn't make this impossible, just less likely as there alot of women who do place importance on it, despite what they say.
You likely get hurt along the way, as some girls actually laugh. I don't talk from personal experience, as I am a virgin. I have some freinds who are about the same size and am relating to thier experiences.
It's my view, alot of women will agree. There are supposodly some that it doesn't matter with. No I am not a propaganda for the penis enlargement industry, I think it's bull personally. I am just in the same boat. I'm a petite, very sexy, 26 yr old female. Until recently, I've only been with one man and have been married for 6 years now. Penis size was never really a concern in my teens or for the first couple of years of marriage. But for a few years now, my curiosity has been very intense and I'm now having terrible thoughts about almost every man I see and talk to.
My husband is about 5 inches long, and is sort of thin and boney, and he has been very insecure about it. He cums very quickly too, at which time, not very much oozes out. Every time there was ever talk about penis size from our friends, or from a movie, or whenever any reference was made about male endowment, my husband gets very angry, and jealous. He immediately looks at me to study my reaction.
I'd usually pretend I didn't hear it, or pretend I am indifferent to the dialog. So I'd pretend not to hear it, or act like I was disqusted But on the contrary I was very interested and aroused, and very aware of penis size.
I think the main reason I've become so obsessed, is because my husband is so hung up on his size, and so intimidated by guys who are well endowed. In fact, I am aware that he is obsessed with penis size also, and possibly even aroused by well hung males. About a year ago, I had found his pornography stash that included males, and since then, he has added to it.
And though I do love him, I've already cheated on him 4 times now, 3 times with the same guy. The sex is incredible with this guy and he has much bigger and more attractive penis. This guy works with me and is always mildly flirting with me in tasteful ways. I had agreed to meet him for drinks one Friday after work. When I saw he was nearby, I mentioned that my husband was "out of town on business again" to another co-worker, thats when he discretely asked me out.
I was so excited to finally be meeting with him. I wondered if his subtle hints about being well hung were true The first time was very awkward, until we embraced, and until I felt his buldge press lightly against me.
I could tell right away it was going to be really big, and sort of spongey, or meaty, instead of little and boney. In a matter of seconds I was sopping wet and ready to submit to him.
His gentleness quickly became more aggressive and dominant. The more he took charge, the more I felt powerless to stop him. The kind of sex we had was completely different from my husband. I quickly found myself gaging on his tender, oversized head, and then, cumming all over it. I wanted him to completly dominate me, and in the end, I drove home with my sore little pussy feeling well satisfied, my asshole still tingled from being licked and fingered, and his cum was sticking to the back of my throat.
Since then, I have gotten up close and intimate with his beautiful 8 inch package twice more. Notably, his cock is very wide and has an enormous shiney head. Meanwhile, sex with my husband is as boring as ever, and how pathetic it seemed the last time I jerked his little boner off, with just 2 fingers and a thumb, while rolling his tiny balls around in my other fingers, and all the while, praising him for having 'such a big stiff erection.
Yeah size matters, much more than I would have ever imagined. Now I have to figure out how to share this obsession with my husband Soon, I will be confronting him about his obvious bisexual tendencies, because I fantasize about involving my husband in a threesome with a well endowed man I dumber than bang of hammers.. They try there best to get it out of my pants. But I play hard to get.. But I give in a stretch there pussies good.. I thinks have gotten 20 girls preganat already..
I may be a girl, but this site really helped me understand the male psyche. I've yet to be in a sexual relationship, so the insights on this site have given me an idea as to what to expect of my partner physically and mentally. I will not deny that penis size is important, but I suffer from my own insecurities as well. I worry about the size of my chest and shape of my butt and fret that no man is ever going to notice me. In all reality, I'm completely average.
It's okay if you're average or smaller than average, because that's what toys are for. Keep this site alive! This is a follow up to my last post. After reading some of the thousands of comments posted here, I would like to say: Some of you guys need to stop kidding around! Some people are here for serious reasons!
It's important to feel secure in our bodies, man and woman alike! It takes different penises and different techniques to satisfy different women. When it comes to committing to one person, however, you and your partner need to be very open and frank about what pleases the two of you.
If all you care about is sexual satisfaction, then you'll be having affairs and ruining your "marriage".
You'd be best not to marry, you lustful dolt. There are more important things in life. Now it's true, I am a virgin. I really don't know what will please me and make me orgasm. I will not lie, though, I lust for big dicks. Weather or not this is really what I want is unknown. I just know I like looking at them and I would like to get a hold of one as well. How else do you think I stumbled upon this site?
This doesn't mean I'm going to marry a man just for his huge dick, though. I plan to marry for longevity as in life-long partner, not sexuality, perv. If we end up not being able to please each other to the max, then that's where experimenting with positions, toys, porno, and whatever comes into play. I would even let him have a mistress if he needed, just as long as he plays it safe and doesn't want to run away with her.
I don't want to be hurt by my man either. Big is fun to look at and play with, but I don't want to be in discomfort. Too small would be awkward as well. I want to know I'm having sex. As it is right now, I don't know what too big or too small is for me. I know it will change over time. The more sex I have and after I have kids I know it will take different strategies to make me orgasm. But by that time I doubt I'll be as horny as I am now.
My point is that, yes, size does matter. But 5" may be all you need to get a girl begging for more. You may have to use more than just your instincts, though, after the first time. And sure 9" is impressive, but if you're hurting her then she's not going to want it in her so often. This is not a shallow site; it's just honest, and I think that's important. Guy's need to have pride in their bodies; it's far more attractive that way.
Some of you may discredit me for being nothing more than a 19 year old white virgin girl, but my words are sincere, and I believe in what I'm saying! I'm not some jerk posing as a girl just so I can hear my own voice.