My girlfriend feels horny during her period and wants me to have sex, but I don't want her blood on my penis, even with a condom. What should I do? Do all girls feel horny during their period? Females are split on that almost perfectly. About as many want to masturbate or have intercourse on their period as do not. The important thing is that your girlfriend is one of those who wants it. She puts up with your semen; perhaps you could decide you can put up with her blood.
And you can wash it off afterward. I really appreciate the way you respond to people who tell you they're questioning their sexual orientations because they sometimes look at pictures of people of their own genders while they masturbate.
They need to stay open-minded and not label themselves if they don't feel ready to yet. I'm a gay man and having someone tell me that I might not be straight, but it was OK to take my time with it all would have made my life so much easier. Your site was the first time someone ever said being gay might not be the worst thing I could do. Please keep telling those kids that they may or may not be straight, but they don't need to rush. Please keep telling them they'll be OK either way.
It's so important for LGBT and questioning youth. Every time I masturbate using my imagination purely, I have to touch myself to get aroused, and sometimes even that doesn't work. My imagination doesn't seem reliable at times, though it can give me an erection if I'm not distracted. Is there something wrong with me? I read here that guys my age should be easily aroused. Is it because I have seen or read too many erotic videos that I am experiencing some form of erectile dysfunction?
It is not "erectile dysfunction" that you need to touch your penis to get an erection. That is how it usually works. You can't "will" yourself to have an erection. If it seems like you can, it's because you have so many erections when you're young.
Having said that, as I frequently say, at your age, you should be able to masturbate to orgasm from your imagination alone and not need any video help. Is masturbating twice a day and sometimes three times a day too much? At any older age, probably. I masturbate 3 times a day, every day of the week.
It's not interfering with my social life or causing me any injuries. I also don't masturbate to porn. Is this frequency of masturbation abnormal or harmful? Why not cut down to twice a day and see if your social life improves? By 16, I would expect you to be down to once a day or perhaps times a week.
Sometimes precum randomly comes out of my penis 5 to 10 minutes after masturbating. How can I make the problem goes away? Some semen remains in your urethra after you ejaculate and usually doesn't come out until you stand up.
Be ready to catch it when it happens. Every time I sleep naked, I get aroused and wind up masturbating. How can I just sleep naked and not feel compelled to masturbate? I really don't see what the problem is. You will get used to the feeling of sleeping naked and it won't arouse you every time eventually. Is it normal to have a strong preference for masturbating to nudes and simple GIFs over actual videos?
All my friends, male or female, gay or straight or bi, prefer videos. Am I a weirdo? It's a good sign that you prefer still photos to videos. Too many people want the video to do all the work for them.
With a still photo, you exercise your imagination more. The problem with videos is that it's less about the imagination and more about what's happening in the video.
With a still photo, you can imagine whatever you want happening with the subject in the photo. With a video, you're stuck with what happened in it. This is probably an unusual question but I've been wanting to ask someone and I'm very glad to have found a way to ask someone anonymously.
I've heard that a lot of boys just entering puberty masturbate more frequently because of the novelty of it all and the hormone changes. I'm a female-to-male transgender man and I started taking testosterone a year ago, when I was 17, so that I could go through the male puberty that I've always felt I should have gone through to begin with.
Testosterone changes female genitalia significantly. My clitoris acts very much like a penis and has grown to about 1. I'm also horny all the time and my clitoris randomly gets erect every couple of hours. I've found myself wanting to masturbate times a day, a significant increase compared to before starting testosterone. None of these things are unexpected or upsetting. My doctors told me taking testosterone would make my "female" genitals act more male.
Does it make sense that I could be experiencing a similar increase in frequency because of the novelty and the hormone changes in the same way a younger boy might? I was told that I should expect to feel horny and everything in the same way that any other pubescent guy would. Would it make sense for that to include a spike in masturbatory frequency? It's not unusual to hear of boys that age masturbating twice a day, a frequency that would be very high in someone 16 or older.
Not all boys have that happen, and for most who do, it lasts less than a year. I suspect there is an online support group for trans men somewhere on the Internet where you could get a more satisfactory answer than mine. I have muscle spasms in my legs due to a genetic disease. When I have orgasms, my legs tense, like everyone's do, but tensing triggers minutes of intense flailing spasms in my legs and feet.
Is there a way to safely restrain my legs while I masturbate or have sex that could keep them closer to me to avoid kicking things and hurting myself? Would it be safe to sit with my knees bent, so that my feet and lower legs are pinned underneath me for minutes while I masturbate, or would it be safer to start off lying down and switch to kneeling when I'm getting close, before the spasms start?
If you think I would be better off asking my doctor, what would I even say? I have no idea how I would even begin to bring up masturbation with him. Most males and females stretch their legs out tense while masturbating to keep sensations from the legs from interfering.
It is certainly no problem if you want to kneel in order to masturbate; but I don't think you'd want to do it that way every time; and it would probably not be practical to have intercourse that way. I don't know if your hybrid method of switching from lying to kneeling would be effective; give it a try and let me know.
I would suggest finding an online support group for your condition and asking the members there what they do. Whenever I masturbate, I get to the precum but I start to lose my erection and my hand gets tired.
When you get the pre-cum, stroke as furiously as you can until you have an orgasm. If your hand is getting tired, then you're not letting your arm do as much of the work as it should. I masturbated three times in one day once. Was that too much? I think I'm an exhibitionist. I wouldn't actually masturbate or have sex in public because I know that's a bad idea. I want a healthy way to show off. I think it stems from me being proud of my body because I've worked very very hard to look as good as I do , so I'm thinking about sharing tasteful nudes anonymously online, because then I could be more sure only consenting people are viewing them and I'm not forcing someone to see them if they don't want to.
Since I'm 18 now, I know I could. Is there anything inherently unhealthy about liking to show off, as long as I can control myself and only keep it in the realm of consenting people? Or is this something that's not healthy that I should see a professional about?
There's nothing unhealthy about wanting to show off your body. Women your age have plenty of opportunities to become models. Not very many men do. If you do any posing, consider whether your face will be seen and whether that could cause problems for you down the road. I occasionally wake up some mornings, half-asleep, half-awake, grinding my penis against my mattress.
I'm worried that, if this is prone masturbation, how I can prevent doing this if I do it subconsciously. I masturbate normally and have for years now. I masturbated prone very early on but have masturbated normally since I was at least Are you sleeping nude? If you wore both underwear and heavy pants, like sweat pants, I think it is less likely you would masturbate prone in your sleep.
Do I need help? The majority of males straighten their legs most of the time they masturbate.